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Creations Salutes Everyday Heroines
It's YOUR turn to shine!
At
Femail Creations, we feel strongly about honouring the
amazing, beautiful women making a difference in their
lives, the lives of their loved ones, and the community
around them. To honour this commitment, we've created a
special portion of our website,
Women of Courage, designed to salute everyday
heroines.
Each month
Femail Creations shares the story of ordinary women
doing extraordinary things. We encourage all of our
customers to read these inspirational stories and hope in
turn they will share their stories or those of someone
they know who is dreaming big and living life to the
fullest! |
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September Woman of Courage: Sandi Pike
A little about me...
I was born in Arlington, Massachusetts and have lived
in a few neighbouring towns in Massachusetts all my life.
My husband John, (who was born and raised in Greece) and I
now make our home in the little town of Ashland, MA, and I
like to call our home on the hill the "Enchanted Cottage
as it is small and cozy, nestled in amongst the trees.
I have journeyed through breast cancer twice now. The
first diagnosis seven years ago at the age of 42, about
two months after my husband John and I were married. I had
found a lump in my left breast and went for a biopsy to
check to make sure things were alright (I had a biopsy in
my right breast over 20 years earlier which was benign so
I was hopeful this would be also). But this time it turned
out differently. I remember the two of us walking to the
car in the darkened parking lot of the doctor's office at
the end of a cold winter day in January. We got into the
car and together we cried. John took the following day off
work to be with me, and I cried for the next two days,
feeling so devastated. Then I dried my tears, sat down
quietly at the dining room table with a pen and paper and
drew a line down the middle of the page. On the left side
I wrote as a heading "Things I have going for me" and on
the right "Thing I have going against me".
The left side began to fill up with SO MANY things
like, I have a wonderful husband who will be there for me
all the way, I have been diagnosed early, I have
insurance, I live near the best hospital in the country, I
have loving family and dear friends, I am otherwise
perfectly healthy, etc. The right side only had ONE things
written, "Breast Cancer". Looking at that page gave me
courage I needed, and I began to feel an inner calm.
The surgery went well (a lumpectomy) followed by six
weeks of radiation. I began to focus on the things that
nurtured me most. Gentle music, the sound of water (
designed a three-pool water garden for our back yard in a
corner where nothing ever grew, that now delights us each
spring and summer). I realized that books and the joy of
reading was a passion in my life that buoyed my spirit,
and that flowers nurtured my spirit as well. Although I
have been a freelance artist and calligrapher for many
years, my work began to 'shift ' a bit from designing note
cards and bookmarks with my copyrighted Angel Ariane. I
began to have a "new vision", although Angel Ariane is
still very much a part of my life, I knew that many other
women are also nurtured by reading and by the beauty of
flowers too. So my creations began to take a different
direction. I began creating bookmarks and now magnets and
note cards using pressed flowers and hand calligraphed
nurturing verses like, "You are Loved", "You are divinely
protected and guided", "Breathe", "Be Still", Listen to
your inner voice", "You are a sacred soul on a sacred
journey and you are deeply loved", "Remember when you were
little you thought you could do anything?" (You Can.)
"Everything will be all right", and many others.
I thought, if every time someone could sit down with a
book and open it up to find a laminated bookmark with
beautiful real pressed flowers beside a nurturing verse,
that would be a powerful and loving affirmation for health
and well-being. Women are so often nurturing others and
often find it difficult to make time to nurture themselves
(and this is so often where 'dis-ease' begins, when we
forget to give ourselves the same love we so readily give
to others). And, for every item I sell, I donate
approximately 50% of my profits to cancer research
organizations. I have so much to be grateful for, and it
feels good to be giving others a way to add a little more
love to their day, as well as being a small part of the
wonderful efforts to find a cure for cancer by being able
to donate money to different organizations working toward
that goal.
My second healing-journey through breast cancer was
about 2 1/2 years ago. It was in the other breast. This
was found in a mammogram this time, (no visible lump), and
I chose to have a lumpectomy only). It was found in the
earliest stage. |